I have a confession.
At times, I'm scared to talk to strangers. Sometimes I'm even afraid to talk to people I have met. In person, on the phone, heck, sometimes I'm even afraid to text someone I don't know very well. I think a lot of that is because of all the technology we have at our disposal. Sometimes we forget the perks of face-to-face communication. I could talk about how technology has ruined social skills forever. Don't get me wrong, I love me some Apple products... okay, sorry. A rant for another time.
Anyway, you might be asking yourself why I am saying this. I noticed several different occasions today where I avoided someone because I didn't want to make awkward conversation.
Funny anecdote, actually. I came home in between two of my classes, and was greeted by a maintenance worker in my bathroom fixing the tub. I kept having the thought that I should ask him if he wanted some water or a cookie (that I had plenty of left-overs from my Spanish presentation). But I didn't. And before I knew it, he was leaving. And I was kicking myself for not being more friendly. Because it really doesn't hurt to be friendly! (Also, I had a random, and super appreciated act of kindness the other day in the form of a note and chocolate. This friend knows the way to my heart :) So ever since then, I've been especially aware of the opportunities I could have to make someone's day just a little better.)
So this is my goal. Have a conversation with a new person every day. (or maybe once a week. Cause let's be realistic, I'm not just going to wake up being a social butterfly. It don't happen like that.) Because I don't particularly like this fear that I have and I want to change it. So help me out, will ya strangers?